I am happy to say that out first STARchat party was a huge success last night. Lots of you came and I hope you will tell me what you thought here today. I didn’t promote it too much since I wanted to make sure it worked. We will be sending out a potential schedule for the next 2 weeks and want your feedback and if and when you want to chat with me again. We made lots of money for my charity and hope you feel it was worthwhile way to connect. I can answer questions LIVE and this so cool!! I am getting ready now to do ANOTHER radio tour at 9AM on
9am WMC-FM/Memphis (Ron and Dana)
910 WZPT-FM/Pittsburgh (JR and Shelley)
920 WRMM-FM/Rochester (Tony)
930 WCTK-FM/Providence, RI (Tim)
940 WTRY-FM/Albany (John and Jamie)
950 Art of the Interview/syndicated (Chris)
If you can please listen and call in!
Then I will be in my office catching up all day!
Love, Jill










May 5th, 2009 at 10:26 am
Hi Jill and Fans:
Wanted to thank you for the donation CreakyJoints received this week from STARCAM in the amount of $512.48!
CreakyJoints continues to help people with arthritis through education, support and innovative programming. For more information please go to http://www.creakyjoints.org and thanks again for your support!
Seth Ginsberg
CreakyJoints Co-Founder
May 2nd, 2009 at 6:48 pm
i saw you here! ahh so amazing
May 2nd, 2009 at 6:47 pm
ahh jill i saw you on star chat. you have no idea how happy i was i am the hugest HUGESET HUGEST FAN. you gotta tell me your charity evetns where and when they are because i would love to come and donate and help out.
heres my email octoberbaby493@aol.com
please please please email me
iloveyou so so much and we have lots too talk about
May 2nd, 2009 at 7:41 am
Jill, I love the work that you do to give back. Continue to pay it forward. I encourage everyone to make it a summer resolution and pay it forward by volunteering for a cause.
Best wishes Jill and let me know if I could ever be of service to your work.
May 1st, 2009 at 2:43 pm
I think the comments may be getting a little to personal!
May 1st, 2009 at 1:01 pm
To Jenn: Are you completely mad? With your financial status you would spend thousands on a wedding? That is a very bad idea.
Get your priorities straight: get married in City Hall and throw yourself a big anniversary party in five or ten years when you may have the money- Sounds like you’re asking Jill to foot the bill for your fantasy and that is not nice and pretty nervy of you. And by the way, join the club- millions are without financial wherewithal these days,read the papers, millions, and they have families to support.
May 1st, 2009 at 7:18 am
Jill - I am looking at the previews for the upcoming finally of RHW and I am nearly afraid to watch. Please tell me that the preview (where you and Bethenny are fighting and both of you look near tears) ends well. I love the alliance between the two of you. I know friends have fights… just love you both.
April 30th, 2009 at 11:45 pm
This is in response to someone named cherly from a comment..Kelly brings out the worst in everyone…she is nuts!! who, in there right mind, could have a relationship with that chick? I would run for the hills. Kelly is by far the most out of touch person on that show, she is shallow and her actions are random…she has nothing in common with these women, especially Jill and Bethany, and lets hope the queen ooopss I meant the “contessa” starts to see the light with that as well. SHALLOW …it sums it up!
April 30th, 2009 at 11:40 pm
In defense of what someone said about Bethany in a comment, she is a very good person who I believe is really a very good friend to Jill as well from what I have read and heard from them on tv shows ect.. And on another note, I know for a fact that when discussing the charity event on the roof top apt. of Jills friends house it was , for a fact, mention that there would be signage and that bethany would make the signiture cocktail for that night and even bartned, it is on film! go back and watch that episode. that crap was started by Ramona who cannot seem to go a day without starting something, especially if its going to get in between Jill and Bethany becasue she is jealous. It was so rediculous and I really felt bad for Bethany because I believe that she would never do anything to hurt Jill or Bobby.
April 30th, 2009 at 11:33 pm
Jill, you are fantastic!
April 30th, 2009 at 2:11 pm
What is wrong with Kelly can you say “out to lunch” She is very Patronizing , Which is defensive to Bethany. I think Kelly brings something out in Bethany;s past a feeling that she just can’t get a grasp of some people just do not get along I hope another so called meeting of the minds is not initiated between Kelly and Bethany That’s what makes the world go round not everyone is going to laugh together talk together. It makes us realize our differences in each other which is a gift from up above;0) Love the show You are a great mom.
April 30th, 2009 at 11:38 am
How can you stand all the cat fighting, life is too short..take a break come to Florida have lunch! I have only a few girl friends, don’t ever fight! I like Bethenny, a little to much drama and over analyzing every word, sentence, etc
April 30th, 2009 at 11:10 am
Hey Jill,
Love the show. That apartment renovation was fantastic. I am curious about your arthritis charity. My little girl Charlotte has been diagnosed at the age of 2. We give her shots once a week. When was your daughter diagnosed and how does she treat it.
Kate
April 30th, 2009 at 11:05 am
Jill,
I have been wondering where I can purchase the “Team Jill” shirts that you and your friends wore to the tennis match between you and Mario. If you could let me know that would be fantastic, because I would love to purchase one for my friend and myself, as we are both big fans. Thank you so much for your time and I will look forward to hearing back from you soon!
Sincerely,
Austin
April 30th, 2009 at 10:57 am
Jill, I missed the STARchat party, but I think it’s a fantastic idea and I love how you are so passionate about raising money for your charities. So count me in as a fan of the idea, I just need to figure out how it works so I can join in. -Carol
April 30th, 2009 at 10:48 am
Jill - you are fast becoming a role model for me. I really love how you can dedicate so much of yourself to philanthropy and helping others. I am trying to build my own foundation and scholarship fund and it is proving to be more work than I can handle by myself at the moment, as my paying job demands more of my attention. But I just keep plugging away at it as best I can and in doing so, make more connections and find more people who are interested in helping me achieve my mission. It will get there. The more I watch Housewives and see what a non-stop, energetic spirit you are, I become more inspired to keep moving. I hope you continue to do what you do, and I look forward to seeing more! Take care and I hope you enjoy the weekend!
Eiizabeth
April 30th, 2009 at 10:11 am
Dearest Jill~OMG! Where do I begin to thank you and your wonderful fans?! Just received a call from Nancy Bruno, Author of Beautiful Women. http://www.beautifulwomenproject.org. She had noticed a spike in hits to that website! She tracked it back to Jill Zarin and finally to me!
Imagine her excitement as well as mine! Thank you ALL! It means so much to me, personally. My journey has meant something. My gratitude and joy knows no bounds. Jill Zarin, you are a proven connector! Now, it is time for me to “simmer and settle”. *W*! THANK YOU ALL!
Loving The Real Fans of Jill Zarin and JILL ZARIN~
Peg Selikoff
April 30th, 2009 at 9:37 am
Jill, this is my first time writing to you.. But I have not missed an episode. I have to tell you.. I love watching the show. What I love about you is how they show you actually working. I know that you get a lot of flack in these times for having money.. But, if you work hard why shouldn’t their be a big payout? My life is complete opposite of yours.. My family and I don’t have money.. But, we still love life and after all isnt that what its all about.. Just had to say your great and I wish you and your family all the best!
April 30th, 2009 at 8:54 am
I also forgot to include in my previous comment that I have arthritus in my back and also degenerative disc disease. I know that your daughter has arthritus and you have done fund raisers for Arthritus foundations, that’s why I was asking you if you could help me. I know it’s a fund raiser for a wedding, but I really don’t know what else to do.
Thanks again,
Jenn
April 30th, 2009 at 8:43 am
Jill,
First of all - I wanted to say I am a HUGE fan of the show. I absolutely love you and your family. I can’t get enough. =)
This is a very odd request and I wish I could email you it because it’s kind of creepy for me to ask this in a comment. I really don’t know who else to reach out to. I’ll ask the question first and then I’ll give you my story. I was wondering if you could run some kind of fund raiser for my fiance and I to have a wedding and for me to reunite with my family and friends. We are both 25 years old and cannot afford to throw ourselves a wedding. My family lives in NJ (his damily lives in SC near us) and I moved to SC a little over a year ago (to be with him) and I never get to see my family. I have seen them 4 days in the past year. My family cannot afford to travel here either. We REALLY want a wedding, but truly cannot afford it. I have been laid off twice in the past year and now I cannot find work. My fiance has a job and is actually starting up a second job for us to have some extra income. I am not saying we are poor and helpless, we definitely can survive on his income, but it’s tight and there is no money for a wedding. I desperately need some help and I’ve tried reaching out to a few “wedding shows” but no luck. The dream of a wedding and seeing my family and friends is looking bleek for us. Please Jill, can you see what you can do?? ANY help would be GREAT.
Thank you so much for reading this. Please email me if you want my full story, I didn’t want to tell it in a comment.
Thank you,
Jenn
PS - I am friends with you on Facebook, so if you’d like to see pictures of myself and my fiance, they are on there. =)
Thanks again for taking the time to listen!! =)
April 30th, 2009 at 6:54 am
Jill, watch out for Bethenney. She is a tough, tough lady who grew up very differently than yourself. She is a survivor and will do whatever it takes to get to the top. By sitting through all of the charity event meetings not saying one word about the signs, and then doing what she did makes her a very untrustworthy individual. She is capable of anything and I think even Gloria would agree with that statement. Be careful. You have a heart of gold and she knows it.
April 29th, 2009 at 11:59 pm
Jill- I don’t know what happens next week, but in re: to the Bethanny/Kelly drama, do you feel any differently about all of it now that you have seen first hand how demented Kelly is with Bethanny? She says something one week and then either completely denies it the next, or turns it around and says that Bethanny is the one who did it. I think she’s seriously insane, and I feel bad for Bethanny because I think at the time when she told everyone what happened, people didn’t believe Kelly could actually be that horrible.
Her children are very sweet- but I feel bad for them if she handles things with them the way she handles Bethanny. It would be very confusing for a child to live with that.
Bethanny will find someone when she’s really ready. Right now is not the time.
April 29th, 2009 at 11:15 pm
Jill: Many of my observations mirror your fans (especially “M”, linda, katrina…) which is probably why we are gravitating to your site. Of all the ‘housewives’, Bethany and you are by far my favorites…you two appear to be the most grounded and real personalities. I was prompted to write tonight after viewing the most recent episode, when you tried to get Bethany & Kelly to work things out. Some things are better left alone. Kelly is really not worth Bethany’s time. I can’t believe how calm Bethany was while having the conversation (albeit one-sided, since Kelly really didn’t have a clue and was having her own conversation). Hopefully, Kelly reads these blogs and will seek help. She appears to be very self-centered; more so than the average person. If she watches these shows, does she not SEE? Over the years, I have observed major flaws in others and recognized them as flaws I also possessed. So I worked hard to eliminate or overcome them. First step is ‘recognizing’ the flaw, Kelly. Look in the mirror. Not a pretty sight. I’d be embarrassed to view myself on tv if I were Kelly.
April 29th, 2009 at 8:26 pm
Hey Jill!
I love the StarCam idea. The audio feed was cutting in and out so on both questions you answered I only caught part of your answer which is a shame. But I still love the idea of the whole video chat idea.
It is hard to watch the show and pay attention to you, though. Maybe pushing it an hour back would help.
Thank you for this great opportunity to get to know you better.
Kari M.
April 29th, 2009 at 5:05 pm
JIll:
I was a little ahead of myself on my last post! Shouldn’t comment about an episode that did not aire yet!
Oops, Sorry! Anyhow, I can appreciate you trying to patch things up between Bethenny and Kelly. Perhaps, those two just are not meant to be friends. Not everyone is. I’m not looking forward to next week’s episode because it will be the finale and I’m not ready for the show to end the season yet! We’ll have to wait months for the new season. Best wishes for a blessed & beautiful week to you and your family!
April 29th, 2009 at 3:15 pm
dear jill, loved the show last night, although the previews…not so much!! how can you and bethaney fight? i think perhaps ramona had her hand in this. i can’t believe this season is amost over already. what is there to watch on tuesdays, now? new jersey!!! atlanta!!! oc!!! new york is the only one to watch. have you ever seen the “truman show”? 24/7 365 it’s just a thought.
April 29th, 2009 at 3:13 pm
It’s sad watching Kelly. Either she has a drug problem or she has a pretty significant narcissistic personality disorder. Or is this what happens when one has relied upon their good looks for so long that they are unable to function in the real world once those looks fade. There just doesn’t seem to be anyone inside. Sad.
Betheny’s hard-won rise from obscurity and financial difficulty is admirable. But when she was describing the insecurities and head-games of the “nerds” and how they over-compensate once success finds them, she could have been describing herself.
Strangely, Kelly and Betheny share deep insecurities. Kelly copes by denying the reality of her failed life and lives in an alternate universe of her own making; Betheny copes by putting her business/financial success first and when feeling threatened, by striking out with her cutting humor as she has done with clueless Kelly…keeping the world at a safe distance. This is why marriage is probably unlikely for her. She distrusts the world. A sad gift from her parents.
Not surprising then that she plastered her signage all over your charity event without first consulting you. She just acts out of her insecurity and fear, which leaves little room for true relationship or friendship. Some day she will hopefully realize this and make the right adjustments.
Kelly though needs some serious long-term therapy.
April 29th, 2009 at 8:01 pm
I see your email is my name! WHY???
April 29th, 2009 at 2:32 pm
I only caught part of the show last night. You and Bethanny are by far my faves. I do not understand why Bethanny would bother to talk to Kelly. She is an insipid, self centered ,bore. Everytime she opens her mouth she confirms how stupid she is….AND..she is not nice. I think Bethanny should move on, who cares what Kelly thinks. I would like to say, that I don’t think Bethanny needs to tell a guy that she is a “ball buster”..I think that info is on a “need to know” basis. Why show up looking gorgeous and say something like that??? Sabotage perhaps?
Love ya, mean it
Linda
April 29th, 2009 at 1:47 pm
omg I cannot even believe you and Bethenny are going to fight! The girls and I were so upset when we saw the previews. and Kelly is on drugs - she also beats on boyfriends and steals ideas from assistants.
SOOOOO funny whenever Bethenny imitates Kelly’s falsetto ‘Helloooooooooo’
Jill - hurry and get your Mom back on the show. Also we want more of Aly - she is the sweetest kid on the show.
Please do NOT fight with Bethenny - we love her!
April 29th, 2009 at 8:02 pm
please write to bravotv.com on andy cohen’s blog! Love jill
April 29th, 2009 at 12:12 pm
Jill:
I’m hoping that everything has cleared up between you and Bethenny, by now. We viewers realize these episodes have been taped months ago and alot has changed since then. Anyway, this show is partly based on friendship. It seems you and Bethenny have much respect and great admiration for each other. Hopefully, that has not changed. Have you posted pics of Bethenny’s newly decorated apartment yet? Wow, Simon & Alex’s home is quite bold, vibrant & dramatic! Wish I could have tuned into one of those radio shows you participated in. Any upcoming television appearances for you? Hoping all is fabulous for you and your family!
April 29th, 2009 at 12:02 pm
Hey Jill,
I posted on your website last night about your apparence on CNN. But is is no longer there. Hope this one stays. You were GREAT on the show and I agree 100% in NOT having separate bank accounts. TOO much drama and NOT enough trust. LOL Was cracking up at your Mom Gloria’s kibbles. Keep up the AWESOME work on your charities and hope you and your family have a blessed summer. Take care.
Allison
April 29th, 2009 at 11:31 am
Loved the show! You seem to have the only husband that is aware that the show is “The Real Housewives” not “The Real Husbands”. Keep up the great work!
April 29th, 2009 at 10:43 am
jill, I watch the show last night Poor Bethenny, Kelly is mentally ill.She should watch herself and see how brain dead she is. The show
and you are great.
I am in the process of putting together a
birthday bash(for me)/charity event. The theme is The Real House
wives of NYC. I would like to know if you would be interested in
advertising a few of your products(such as samples). and advertisement
material for your store and Team Jill. I will also be asking Ramona.
Since I live in California and the time difference it makes it hard
to contact your business. So if you are interested please email me
@donnafamily@aol.com. The event is going to be great. The charity is
for the teachers,schools and children in our area. Wanting to purchase
school supplies, books and any that can help the needs for education.
thank you for your time
sincerely
Donna M Peters
April 29th, 2009 at 10:37 am
Jill,
Loved the show last night, finally got to see a hairdresser, have been asking you who colors your hair, but have never gotten any response, love the color.
I’m thinking that Kelly is a bit Bipolar, doesn’t she ever get to see what she said to Bethenny? What a wacko. This season the Vankempen’s are a bit more real and caring, but what gives with the red walls?
Looking forward to next week, can’t get enough of you girls and guys.
xxx
Mikaela
April 29th, 2009 at 10:25 am
Jill, I so love you…. But I wish you could find a different website other that STARcam to use… Every time I try to use it I cannot get it to work… I also do not like the fact that I have to pay…. I wasted my credits on the first night you tried it and it was a complete failure. I totally agree that the money is for charity but I still cannot afford to pay…. This is a recession… You are my favorite, Ramona and Kelly are my least favorite, The Van Kempens are growing on me, and Bethenny rocks… STARcam is a NO for me but I will definitely follow you on here and facebook… Luv ya… Billy
April 29th, 2009 at 9:10 am
Oh Jill I was too busy with my goat babies. I watched the show on my DVR late last night.
I may cry when you and Bethenny fight! Watching Bethenny and Kelly try to work it out was like watching a Frenchman and a Spaniard both trying to understand the other language. That being said I was as confused by Kelly as Bethenny was.
My big city escape is over, I do have many dirty goat baby pix up!
April 29th, 2009 at 8:17 am
Jill, enjoyed the show last night. Not sure about the Vankempen’s apartment, looks a little like a bordello but hey if they like it….and why in the hell does bethany even attempt to talk to Kelly? That gal is an idiot, she must have been absent when god was giving out brains! LOL
Jeannie